How do you rebuild confidence after the death of your loved one? You do not do it entirely alone but with the support of community. At work, in your church, or in your volunteer service you experience restored confidence as you engage and take on new duties or responsibilities. Your self-confidence is bolstered by the satisfaction of a hobby or recreation. You are affirmed by the enrichment and enjoyment of independent travel. Your children, grandchildren, and friends assure you that you are of value to them and to others. Your confidence is renewed in the hope of life.